The story of a woman who eventually broke up with her prospective groom after living together for five months on the premise of marriage was reported due to shocking hygiene problems.
On the 12th, she told an online community, “We lived together on the premise of marriage, but (the prospective groom) was dirty, so she broke off the engagement because she didn’t want to look like her whole life. She said that all prospective grooms are like that, and I am sensitive, so please look at it.”
According to Mr. A, the groom-to-be left her toilet seat cover (cover) as it is even if urine is stained, and even if her stool remains in the toilet bowl, he neglected it. She doesn’t brush her teeth before bed and changes her socks every 4-5 days.
In addition, she did not change her underwear well, and her hair was scattered all over the place, said Mr. A.
Mr. A said, “If I spill food on the floor while eating, I don’t clean it up today because it’s my cleaning day.”
She continued, Mr. A said, “All men say that, but even the mother’s son (brother or younger brother) in the family home doesn’t do it that way. I have to blame myself for having my eyes on my feet for a moment, what should I do?” he complained.
Regarding her point of ‘didn’t you know when you were dating’, she said, “When we were dating, I didn’t smell at all. Rather, the scent of gargle or body wash was strong. She has never been on a trip with me because her work schedule doesn’t fit,” she said.
At the same time, she said, “When I just started living together, it wasn’t that dirty for a month or two. In the beginning, I used it so cleanly that I couldn’t tell if this person had urinated or had a bowel movement, and I changed my socks every day or two.”
Male 53.3%, Female 61.3% “Need to live together before marriage”
The marriage information company Duo스포츠토토 (CEO Soo-Kyung Park) conducted a survey of 300 unmarried men and women (150 males and 150 females). Female 61.3%) answered.
The most necessary reason for living together before marriage was ‘to know the other person’s unknown parts’ (male 50.0%, female 48.9%).
In addition, opinions such as ‘to adjust each other’s life patterns’ (25.0% for men, 25.0% for women) and ‘to decide whether or not to marry through living together’ (18.8% for men, 26.1% for women) were followed.
On the other hand, the reasons why living together before marriage is unnecessary are ‘I don’t feel the need to live together’ (26.3% male, 52.2% female), ‘there is a risk of breakup’ (36.8% male, 21.7% female), ‘because the excitement of newlyweds has disappeared. ‘(15.8% male, 8.7% female), ‘I want to live with my family until marriage’ (5.3% male, 13.0% female), and ‘Because I care about the eyes of others’ (10.5% male, 4.3% female).
Among them, men ranked ‘because there is a risk of marriage breakup’ (36.8%) and women ‘because they did not feel the need to live together’ (52.2%) as their priority, revealing a difference in perceptions on cohabitation between men and women.
Meanwhile, in a 2021 survey by Gayeon, a marriage information company, of 314 unmarried men and women (148 males, 166 females), 62% of respondents said they broke up their marriage. announced that it was determined to